A few other thoughts. A good groomer can minimize the flying nun look a bit. I think the key would be to not do a shag cut on the ears. Instead, let the hair keep growing with the goal of the hairs on the top and middle portion of each ear growing to the bottom part of each ear, then trimming only the bottom.
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If you're really mad or curious, buy a
Breed & Health Kit from Embark (usually on sale for $159). It uses saliva swabs which you mail back to them, and will test for which breeds are in her ancestry. If not all poodle, you then have proof, because our opinions won't hold water with the breeder or small claims court. Keep in mind that even with proof, at best the breeder might offer to refund your money but only if you give back the dog, which she will likely then sell again as a poodle.
Since you like this little girl and consider her part of the family, the more important part of the delux Embark kit is it will rule out
testable, inheritable DNA genetic disorders. If it turns out that she's a carrier for one or more conditions,
depending on which one(s), she won't ever develop that disorder. If two carriers breed, however, some of the pups are usually affected.
If one or more of her tests comes back that she's listed as 'affected', then at some point she will develop that disorder. This happens when dog inherits a copy of the same faulty gene from each parent. In that case you would want to notify the breeder, decide if you want to pursue a full or partial refund, and get pet health insurance. The better odds are, however, she won't test as being
affected of anything, but it will give you a peace of mind, or the need for a plan.
The next time you see your vet, have them check her out for something called
Patellar Luxation. This is a quick, manual exam of her knees, also known as the patellas. Hopefully this won't be a problem. If so let us know.
Good luck.