Can't help with the girl side of this but my boys absolutely Do Not Like one friend of my husbands. They bark with great agitation at his arrival, they are tense and agitated if he's out of sight like in the garage with my husband, and start the agitated barking again when he reappears.
He's a nice guy, a dog lover with dogs of his own, but they do not care.
Reading thru the posts again and something you said about hanging in the entryway reminded me of a method often suggested but in other circumstances. I haven't tried it yet but I will, next opportunity.
Suppose you and Bennie, on leash, go out front to meet him first, chat for a minute, and then walk in together?
That may not be enough time, it may not matter at all, but changing the environment and the initial part of the encounter might make a difference.
He's a nice guy, a dog lover with dogs of his own, but they do not care.
Reading thru the posts again and something you said about hanging in the entryway reminded me of a method often suggested but in other circumstances. I haven't tried it yet but I will, next opportunity.
Suppose you and Bennie, on leash, go out front to meet him first, chat for a minute, and then walk in together?
That may not be enough time, it may not matter at all, but changing the environment and the initial part of the encounter might make a difference.