Lol! Peggy feels personally attacked by this comment.
Gracie (half mini) was known to occasionally swallow disgusting things like earplugs and tampons. But she didn't gleefully steal things the way Peggy does. How you handle those situations can have a large bearing on whether or not your poodle turns into a "gulper." And the size of your poodle will of course dictate the size of the items their mouths (and throats!) can accommodate.
There will always be exceptions, but I've noticed two other distinct differences between spoos and minis:
1. My spoo is a couch potato. I've never gotten the Energizer Bunny vibes from her that I get from minis. Even in puppy class, the minis could go and go and go. They literally ran circles around Peggy.
2. Spoo barks are deep and ferocious sounding. They can be extremely intimidating (and sometimes embarrassing). And while Gracie had two settings—shrill bark or quiet—Peggy has a wide range of vocalizations. She groans, growls, woofs, boofs, and yes, BARKS. But she's got a good off switch. Gracie would struggle to stop barking once she'd started. I'd call it "yapping" but that term sounds derogatory.
I'm fairly confident our next poodle will be a mini. If 30 lb spoos were common and could be guaranteed, that would be my first choice. I've really been enjoying having such a solid cuddle buddy. But even at a very reasonable 45 lbs and 22.5" (with most of that being legs), Peggy is sometimes too much dog for me. In early adolescence, this was especially true. But I have some mobility issues and am easily injured. Even Gracie could hurt me if she pulled
just so and she was only 12 lbs.
I also find it too physically challenging to groom Peggy myself, whereas I handled all of Gracie's grooming for the last few years of her life. It's not the lifting that's the issue—Peggy can be easily directed to jump or climb. It's the surface area.