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My son and family came over for dinner last night and their dog, Bang and Bobby played in the back yard together. They are close to the same weight but Bobby is a bit taller. Bang is 6 year old mix and plays and runs initially but Bobby, being the young poodle that he is, wants to play endlessly. We all watch them carefully and I would say there there is nothing terribly concerning. Bang would have moments of chasing and fun but just when it gets fun for Bobby, Bang is done. Bobby, is a pesky poodle though. After the racing and around and playing, Bang wants to be done and do his own thing, which last night, was “hunting” chipmunks and Bobby is just the “energizer” poodle and wants to keep going and going. While it wasn’t constant, I felt Bobby was often annoying, jumping forward and back to entice a game, a light nip and jump back cause Bang wouldn’t run and chase. Bang pretty much ignored him and other than the peskiness, we saw nothing concerning but I do know peskiness is not polite dog behavior. I thought we should put Bobby in the house but my son felt they were ok and wasn’t concerned and that Bang can hold his own. Bang barked once and Bobby backed off. I have no problem with a dog telling Bobby to back off. 😉
Bobby is used to doggy daycare and he does great there so he is able to read and respond well to other dogs. I wonder if it’s their familiarity that Bobby acts like this more than with other dogs. So after my long winded description my question is this: Should I just put Bobby in the house or just let them be, as all all, they seem to be doing ok. Obviously, if things escalated they would be separated. I just feel bad for the peskiness. I know I can and probably should do more directly with him during these visits but I don’t get to see my son and family that often so I don’t want the focus to be on the dogs. I would like to visit my family rather than continually train, not to mention grandma has dinner duties too. We do keep a careful eye on them and let them know when they really need to back off. My son definitely keeps a careful eye on his dog. Anyway, in this particular instance I’d rather just separate them if really needed. Bang ignores well and they do play and take breaks, it’s just Bobby can be relentless. And honestly, when all is done, they are both happy and tired dogs. Appreciate any insights. Thanks!
 

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Thank you everyone for your input.
I’ve been thinking about this a lot today and about Bobby’s training, experiences, etc. In reading your helpful responses it became very apparent we have a hole in our training. He’s quite well socialized in most areas and his overall training has come a long way, and he has taken several classes and has done well around the other dogs but politely playing in his own yard, he really hasn’t much practice with. It’s not for lack of trying. It’s funny, you would think in such a high dog neighborhood there would be plenty of opportunities but not really. He’s played with a couple neighborhood dogs in their yards and it was a positive experience but most folks are too busy, and schedules didn’t mesh. What he really needed and still needs is an older dog mentor but that just didn’t happen. I don’t know any. Bang is older but he is quite high energy himself but it’s a different kind of energy than Bobby. Bang blasts into our yard and runs all over like it’s his place. He can be a little hyper. We actually took a care of him for 5 months a few years back so I do think he thinks it’s his yard. A lot of his energy is about that and the wildlife in our yard.
We do a ton of impulse control training with with Bobby and have since he was a young pup but we can always do more!😊
Peggy the Parti, while Bobby isn’t in daycare that often, he’s only there for boarding when we go out of town, which isn’t often, and about 3 or 4 times a month to play, but that got me realizing that Bobby’s play experiences are basically always to play hard. They tell me he plays appropriately and when I look on the web cam, all looks good. But I also think it’s the deal where when one dog gets tired he finds another who will play then he can just go, go and go.
I will try and implement the suggestions shared but will probably mix it with some time out in his room if needed as I really need to focus on my family too. He’s actually really great with settle when he’s on leash and super good with this in obedience class, even when the dogs and handlers are in close proximity, so will apply this skill when Bang is over. Hopefully, he won’t have to go inside as I do agree he needs practice.
Thank you again! 😊
 

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Thank you, Peggy the Party. Yes, Bobby is a great dog. Our greatest training challenge has always been his over excitement although he is settling better and better as he matures and he generally has a good off button. Totally agree that people are exciting too...very, very exciting!😂 We’ve been working hard with greetings and settling when company is over and while it’s still very much a work in process as we don’t tend to get a ton of company, especially during Corona time, we’re getting better and he does settle much better. We even took an Obedience Class for Young and Excitable Dogs last winter, great class actually. He did awesome in that class but transferring that learning does take time. We did a lot of tethering since he was a pup and he’s always been great with that. We still do that when my 2 year grandson is over.
When he needs a break he has no problem being in his room. I’m very lucky to have a poodle, while definitely a shadow, he’s not an anxious dog and will settle in his room without a peep thank you to the power of the Kong!
I try not to do that too much but once in awhile the break is needed. I’d like to think with ongoing training and maturity things will settle. None of it is alarming and it’s all manageable but especially because my heart is for him to be a therapy dog, being calm with distractions is critical. And Bang, when he is over, would definitely appreciate a break. 😉
The thought of what it would be like to have an untrained Spoo keeps entering my brain....I can’t even imagine it!
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Thanks again!
 
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