[bigpoodleperson]

Hello and welcome to the form! Congrats on your new boy, and bless you for taking him in.

Are his knees just that bad, or are his legs deformed in other ways? Are you planning on getting him surgery for his knees eventually? Is he a canidate with his legs?

As far as the NILIF goes, is there anything else he can do? Does he down well? Can he shake? Can he make focused eye contact? Something? NILIF doesnt have to be sitting. The dog just has to work for it. If you can teach him another command or trick instead that would be my advice (you could even get creative with it).

For the SA with the crate, how bad is it? Will he eventually settle down when you leave? Will he eat, take a treat or play with a toy? Is it Just the crate, or Anytime you leave him?
If he will eat then i would fill a REALLY yummy kong, and Only give it to him when you leave. He will look forward to your outings as he will get his treat (i know some dogs are so bad where they dont care what food you stick with them).
Try and exercise him as much as you can before you leave also. Turn the radio on too. I would also work on him getting used to the crate every day. Get some yummy treats (jerky, cheese, hotdog, etc), and go to the crate. Place a treat right outside of the crate for him to get. He doesnt have to walk into teh crate. After a couple times of that, place the treat right on teh door of the crate. After a couple times of that stop for the day. Next time start where you left off and where he was comfortable (which might be right back at the begining). Work on slowly getting him further and further into teh crate. Once he is going into teh back of the crate willingly for a treat then close the door for a second. Let him out and praise. Throw another treat to the back but dont close the door. Next time close the door for a couple seconds. Work your way up.

If you can feed him in the crate (and he will actually eat) do it. The more positive experiences you can associate with the crate the better. It will be slow going for a long time, but with persistance you can do it. He is still adjusting to everything and settling in. Good luck!

 

[Harley_chik]

I can't offer much advice, except to be patient w/ him. I have a Maltese I adopted from my city shelter. He had severe SA and was fear aggressive when I got him. For months, I would come home to find he'd made of nest of any laundry or shoes of mine, he could find. It took a lot of time to build his confidence. I basically ignored him when he behaved poorly, if he was being aggressive, I put in a separate room. He absolutely hated that and he learned he would have to behave to get my attention. He's come along way, he adores my brother, who he once hated w/ a passion. The first time he met one of my cousing, a very tall, male cousin w/a deep voice, he jumped in his lap and acted like a little attention whore. A few years earlier that type of person would've scared the living daylights out of him.

 

[nab]

Thanks for your replies.

In answer to the question about his knees. My vet has only done a physical exam to determine he has grade 4 lp's. He recommends xrays.
The 'guy' we adopted him from says he 'thinks' he had a work up (xrays, mri, etc) that determined he was not a candidate for surgery. I'm not sure I believe he had any of that because to me it would only make sense if someone spent so much money on these tests, that info would go with the dog and not be left behind.
When I first brought Pedey home, it was only to foster him. I couldn't bear the thought of this poor little deformed boy spending another night in a cage being driven half way across the country every other week just to be passed by for adoption. It's a long complicated story, but the end result is I now own him. I can afford to get him xrays, but not the surgery.
My vet says that his muscles are so atrophied, even with the surgery, he may not regain full usage of his legs.
So, in answer to your question, yes, he is deformed along with the lp's.

As far as the crate goes.....he goes in fine. When I say 'In the crate' and open the cookie jar, all of my dogs go in their respective crates. Pedey doesn't mind being in ther util I leave the room. He just doesn't like being alone. Like I said in my original post, he has become weirdly fixated on me.
He follows me everywhere and whines if he can't find me. He is better after he's been exercised. I try to tire him out by taking him for a couple of runs around the yard and then putting him in the house while I finish my walking outdoors. At first, he would balk as soon as I left him alone, but he's eventually gotten used to it. I'm hoping that if I increase the time gradually, he'll get better. The problem is that he SCREAMS when he hears me coming. I'm not sure if he's quiet when we're all gone. The screaming begins when I open the garage door.

Thanks for the suggestion regarding NILF. I've been trying to teach sit/stay before putting his food dish down, but when I tell him to stay w/out a sit, he runs all over the place like a little spaz. He's really quite cute. He has a tiny little head with beady little dark eyes.....quite irresistable.

We've done the kong in the crate and the yummy treats.

 

[Teddy'smomma]

I can't offer much either, but I do agree that you should be his pack leader and teach by example. I think that you should definitely check again to make sure that he isn't a candidate, I hope you can help him and I'll pray for him!! God bless you<3 :cow: