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Need some help deciding...hope you all can help

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Hello,
Thank you for taking the time to read and answer this post; I could use some advice.I am a 73 year old single woman, the previous owner of 2 standard poodles.

Gemma, my last poodle, died during Covid, so that was almost 3 years ago this summer. She had very bad sebaceous adenitis, as well as stomach issues, not too hardy a soul. She was only 9. It really broke my heart.

My first poodle, Jaspar, was a big male, from a breeder in Mass, (Wendell Sammet) who did all the health checks, etc. Jaspar was a wonderful dog who was very healthy, but he was big! I was married at the time and the girls were young and everybody pitched in in his walks, etc.

2 Years after Jaspar died ( I was now divorced ), I decided to get another poodle. Mr. Sammet did not have any at that time and he sent me to Joseph Vergnetti, in Ohio where I got Gemma. She was perfect, because she was on the smaller size, still in the standard size classification, but petite. She was the perfect size for me!!! Really adorable.

However, she had a terrible case of SA and I spent endless time oiling her and bathing her, feeding her extra things it was really more than I could really do again, and I'm nervous I could end up with yet another standard who got SA or some other illness, it troubles me.

Also, because I am older and only getting older !!!, I would like a smaller standard. The miniatures seem a bit TOO small, but are smaller standards more susceptible for illnesses? Maybe Gemma was small because she might have been the runt of the litter and more sickly? You can see I am grasping at straws here on why she was not very healthy.....

So thats the back story. I am hoping that you might help me with:

Am I too old to get a standard? I am pretty energetic, I play tennis and pickleball and walk alot, but as I say, I will only get older. And I do live on my own.

Would it be better to get a male or a female at my age? Does the sex make any difference in their energy level?

How can I find a breeder who does ALL the testing, but that ALSO might have smaller Standards?

What is the most amount of time anyone has left their Standard ( to go on vacation)? I might have to occasionally go away.

Thank you all very much, I have been struggling with this for 2 plus years now, and maybe because I have not leaped forward to get another poodle is a sign......?
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Thank you all for responding. My adult daughter will take the dog when the time comes for any reason. And there would be financial plans in place-I had that for my last dogs.
I have recently moved from NYC-where I had my 2 poodles-to near Phoenix, as my daughters are out west for work now
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I want to thank all of you for taking the time to respond and I will consider all your opinions thoughtfully.
If I do decide to go the mini route, if any one has a good breeder to recommend, that would be helpful. I am willing to travel pretty much anywhere from Ca to the middle of the country. And again, thanks so much,
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Thank you so much. I will start my homework.
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