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#1 ·
Hi there,

I have been researching dog breeds for a while now, and have decided to bring a standard poodle puppy into my life!

I've read quite a bit about how to identify a reputable breeder and I feel confident about the types of questions that I would ask him / her. However, I've been getting a near-zero response rate. Is this typical? I've sent out probably 15+ inquiries over the last week, and I've only heard back from one breeder who rejected my application with no explanation. It's worth noting that I'm primarily filling out forms on the website and e-mailing - should I be calling instead? Texting? Even the AKC MA poodle club has not been responsive to me (I've e-mailed multiple members).

I'm also not clear if I should be limiting my search to my geographical area (I live in Massachusetts). There seem to be more / better breeders in the South and Midwest, but I'm concerned about the ethics and logistics of sending a tiny dog on a cross-country trip when it's so young. It seems like I ought to be able to find a breeder near me, but I can't seem to get any to engage with me. Has anyone had a puppy shipped to them?

Lastly, I have a question about colors - are apricot and brown standard poodles extremely rare? These are my preferred colors, but I don't seem to be able to identify many breeders that have them (especially around me in New England).

Ideally, I'd love to identify a breeder by word of mouth, but I can't seem to make a connection with one. Can anyone help me?

For reference, I would want to bring the dog home in Fall-2021. I have no idea what the lead time is on these things, which is why I'm starting early.

Thanks in advance!
 
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#2 ·
Right now is a very difficult time to be puppy hunting. Normally your lead time would be fine, but this year is a little weird. When I got my boy at the start of 2020 the breeder had several other puppies weaned and available. Now the same breeder is taking reservations into 2022.

Apricot and brown are rarer colors than black and cream, so you are increasing your difficulties by limiting your choices to these colors. Black and cream are more likely to be available. You might want to expand your search to areas within a day's drive of Massachusetts. Gooddog.com lists a fair number of breeders who claim to do health testing. Since you are looking at an autumn timeframe, you might also want to consider breeders in Quebec and Ontario. Hopefully the Canadian border will reopen once the Covid vaccine becomes more widely available.
 
#5 · (Edited)
Hi and Welcome!

Is this the Poodle Club listing you've been using?

Have you seen this Breeder List? It's not a comprehensive list but you can check against the breeders you've contacted, in case there's some listed here that you haven't already seen.
It's stickied in this same forum and has health resources and combined and individual breeder listings, in the US and some international listings.

There should be a number of excellent, quality, conscientious breeders within a days drive of your location. Some seekers have had to expand their search territory but you're well placed, generally.

Taking a week or even more to respond given the inundation of folk looking to fill their home with a puppy in these times isn't unusual.

I'd suggest either a second simple email, describing yourself and what you have to offer a pup, what you're looking for in a pup, and what you like about this breeder, asking when a good time to connect by phone might be, or a phone call asking when you might communicate at more length. Be prepared to give that same info and ask some few basic questions, to allow you and the breeder to learn a bit about each other.
 
#6 ·
Hi and Welcome!

Is this the Poodle Club listing you've been using?

Have you seen this Breeder List? It's not a comprehensive list but you can check against the breeders you've contacted, in case there's some listed here that you haven't already seen.
It's stickied in this same forum and has health resources and combined and individual breeder listings, in the US and some international listings.

There should be a number of excellent, quality, conscientious breeders within a days drive of your location. Some seekers have had to expand their search territory but you're well placed, generally.

Taking a week or even more to respond given the inundation of folk looking to fill their home with a puppy in these times isn't unusual.

I'd suggest either a second simple email, describing yourself and what you have to offer a pup, what you're looking for in a pup, and what you like about this breeder, asking when a good time to connect by phone might be, or a phone call asking when you might communicate at more length. Be prepared to give that same info and ask some few basic questions, to allow you and the breeder to learn a bit about each other.
Hi there! Yes, that's the MA poodle club I've been using. I did actually get one response from a breeder who says that he may be breeding later this year, but it sounded like a very small operation and he wasn't sure if there was a littler planned.

I am looking at your breeder list and it's similar to what I was looking at before. I'll do another cross-reference and consider Canada, too as someone else suggested.

I was able to make a connection today (over the phone) with what I believe can be described as a "high volume breeder" that I see has been thoroughly criticized on this forum here: another high volume breeder site

I have an advanced degree in biochemistry and was impressed by the breeder's knowledge of genetics in his breeding program, but I admittedly know nothing about purebred dogs or poodle breeding protocol. It seems like folks here have taken issue with the standard of dog that this person is selling, but I honestly have had to dig way deep for any negative feedback about this breeder anywhere else on the Internet. Their Facebook page is full of people raving about their happy and healthy dogs, and many families have bought 3+ dogs from this breeder over decades (why would they be a repeat customer if this breeder was really so horrible?). I'm honestly inclined to put a deposit down with this person because he was so communicative and transparent, but I'm having second thoughts based on what some people in that thread are saying about this person. Also, what is "bloat"? It seems like some forum members were saying back in 2011 that his dogs are more prone to bloat because of their lineage.

Thanks in advance...this is all a bit confusing when the seemingly "legit" breeders are so unresponsive...
 
#8 ·
They’re unresponsive because they’re experiencing unprecedented demand due to covid. The world’s pretty topsy turvy right now.

I don’t know which breeder you’re referring to, but poodles shouldn’t be treated like livestock. No puppies should. Have you read Dr. Ian Dunbar’s “Before and After Getting Your Puppy” yet? (If not, I highly recommend!) There’s good info in the “Before” section about choosing a puppy, and this is one thing he considers non-negotiable.

So if by high-volume you mean poodles living their lives in outbuildings, I would personally consider that a dealbreaker.

I would also caution against any breeder with an abundance of public reviews. Large operations may incentivize reviews, whereas the best breeders out there may have none. If you really do want to go with a breeder who has a ton of reviews, this is a situation in which I would recommend looking hard at the negative ones. It’s when things go wrong that you learn the most about a business’s ethics.

Peggy, for example, came from an inexperienced breeder who made some mistakes. When we were struggling with Peggy at a young age, her breeder stepped up 100%. She was accessible, supportive, and committed to working with us in whatever way would ensure the best life for Peggy.
 
#9 ·
P.S. I was extremely happy with the pet store dog I purchased in my 20s. Love of my life. But does that make pet stores okay? It’s not just about the dog you get; you have to consider the lives of the dams and sires, and the litters that came before and will come after.

I am also very aware that she and I got extremely lucky. So even as I could write a rave review about her complete awesomeness, I can only imagine the horror stories that some of her siblings likely endured.

Not saying the breeder you’re considering is a puppy mill, just that you have to take reviews with a grain of salt. And I actually do know some folks—personally—who have been repeat customers of Amish puppy mills in Ontario, Canada, where I’m from. So yes, even horrible operations get repeat business.
 
#10 ·
I couldn't see what breeder was being talked about.

Whoever it is, check that the breeder a) does something with the dogs. You want someone unbiased to say 'oh these are nice dogs" - a conformation title or a performance title (not just a CGC)shows the dog has good temperament (able to compete and win in a high stress environment), and, if confirmation title, is reasonably well put together.

Then -check that the dogs has all the OFA recommended tests. This includes hips, eyes, and the genetic testing.

Then - ask what socialization is being done with the puppies. I know from experience how much easier a good tempered well socialized puppy from a caring proactive breeder is, compared to an anxious poorly bred dog from a BYB. I have one of each in my house and never plan to get another of the latter type.

If you are interested in genetics, I highly recommend spending time on the VGL site/Betterbred. This is a program that aims to reduce inbreeding and inbreeding depression in poodles and several other breeds through genetic testing and understanding of what phenotypes are rare. It's all about breeding for the future of the breed, to prevent bottlenecks and preserve diversity. There is some great info there.

 
#11 ·
Then - ask what socialization is being done with the puppies. I know from experience how much easier a good tempered well socialized puppy from a caring proactive breeder is, compared to an anxious poorly bred dog from a BYB. I have one of each in my house and never plan to get another of the latter type.
This x a million.
 
#13 ·
One option to consider while you continue your search would be to sign up as a foster home with local shelters and rescue groups. I know you’re a first-time owner, but your home might be perfect for a senior pup who can’t handle the stress of a shelter environment, and I’m sure you’d learn a lot from the experience. You could help each other. :)
 
#14 ·
I guessed incorrectly as to which breeder was being named primarily in that thread but with exception to specific website reference to the "special needs, older" category, the overall information is valid.

I'm looking over the site which was primarily named in that thread and see what I can learn from what they present to the poodle seeking public.
 
#15 ·
Compare their contract to a contract from a breeder who does the health testing. Compare not only the differences in the health terms but also the primary focus of each.

What seems most important to each breeder?

) The Buyer agrees to provide a life-long commitment, comfortable environment, prompt medical attention, proper grooming and responsible care. This includes keeping this puppy/dog parasite free and up to date with inoculations, proper nutrition, which consists of a good quality feed given at regular intervals, and fresh water available at all times. The Buyer promises to provide a safe environment for the dog, and never allow the dog to roam freely without proper fencing or supervision. The Seller strongly recommends that the puppy/dog be microchipped in order to facilitate his return if lost or stolen.

2) The Seller guarantees this puppy/dog to be of sound health and temperament at the time of this sale. A health record of all shots and wormings will be provided by the Seller. This dog is in good health and free from communicable diseases to the best of Breeders’ knowledge. If the dog becomes ill within 14 days of receipt by Buyer, the cause of which is clearly attributable to the Seller. Breeders will reimburse Buyer for veterinary expenses related to the illness or Buyer may return the dog to Breeders for a full refund. Buyer shall notify Breeders, by telephone or electronic mail, within 48 hours of the diagnosis of the illness. Buyer shall take the dog to a licensed veterinarian of her choice within 72 hours of receipt of the dog for the 14 day health guarantee to be effective. Buyer is responsible for health, care, and feeding of the dog as of the date of receipt.

3) This dog is guaranteed free from serious inheritable diseases, including, but not limited to, Progressive Retinal Atrophy, patellar luxation, hip dysplasia, thyroid abnormalities, sebaceous adenitis, juvenile cataracts, diabetes, and Addison’s disease. If the dog develops any serious inheritable disease during their lifetime, Breeder shall either refund up to 100% of the purchase price or provide another dog to Buyer, The choice between a refund or a new dog shall be made by Buyer. Moreover, Buyer will not be required to return the dog to Breeder in order to receive the refund or the new dog. Breeder may request that Buyer obtain a second opinion with respect to any diagnosis of an inheritable disease. The medical cost of the second opinion shall be borne by Seller.

4) The Buyers agree not to use this animal for breeding and agree to have it spayed/neutered at the age recommended by their veterinarian. It is strongly suggested by the Seller that the puppy not be spayed/neutered until it has reached it’s full growth as to do otherwise may cause long term health concerns. The Buyer understands that the AKC registration papers do not accompany this puppy as part of the sale. A copy of said papers will be included at the time of the sale. However, after the above mentioned puppy has been neutered/spayed and the certification has been forwarded to the Seller, the Buyer will receive the AKC Registration papers at no additional cost. The Buyer agrees to register the dog using the kennel prefix.

5) If at any time the Buyer can no longer retain possession of this dog, the Seller is to be notified and unless the Buyer is given written permission to place said dog, this dog must be returned to Seller by the Buyer. Refunds, if any, will be at the discretion of the Breeder/ Seller. The dog will be returned with all AKC papers and medical records. Should any circumstances arise that affect the quality of life of this dog, the breeder/seller is to be informed so that they may participate in determining the future of the dog. The Breeder/ Seller reserves the right to approve/prohibit any transfer of this animal to a third party. Under no circumstances will this dog be sold, leased, traded or given away to any pet shop, research laboratory, animal shelter or similar facility.

6) The Buyer agrees to contact the Seller immediately if any questions or concerns arise about the dog, such as housing, diet, health or training. The buyer agrees to keep the seller informed of any treatment as it occurs. This provides the Breeder/Seller with an opportunity to follow up on puppies and gives us important feedback and information on the health or our dogs for future generations.

7) It is understood at the time of sale that this is a pet quality dog and it is representative of its breed. It is structurally and temperamentally suited as a companion and/or performance dog. Training classes are recommended for a happy relationship between the dog and family.
 
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#16 ·
I just wanted to say "thanks" to everyone who weighed in here - I am taking all of this information in (it's a lot!) and doing some more reading. I really appreciate the time that you have all put into helping me. :)

I still have questions, but I think I am starting to understand some of the concerns raised about that particular breeder.

I will probably ask some more follow-up questions later. Thanks again for your support! :D
 
#18 ·
Yes, I am not always the most patient person, but I figure that I have enough lead time that I can figure out some way to bring home a pup this Fall!

I didn't mention it in my first post, but I'm also working on buying my first home right now, which is what's enabling me to have a dog in the first place! So, if all goes well, I should be moved into my place in late summer, enabling me to be ready for a puppy a few months later. It's a lot of things to manage, but one of the main drivers for buying (versus continuing to rent) is to have a home that allows me to have a dog. Exciting!
 
#19 ·
So exciting!! Congratulations on the massive life event. :) Getting a puppy is also a massive life event, which some people really struggle with. Having some extra breathing room between getting settled in your new home and bringing home a poodle wouldn’t be the worst thing. I suspect this year is going to fly by for you!
 
#21 · (Edited)
Hi Everyone,

I just wanted to say thank you for your helpful responses. I was able to connect with a few breeders over the last week and I have a much better idea of what a "good" breeding program looks like. I understand the importance of preserving the health and quality of the breed. I've identified a few good breeders of blacks / creams near me in the Northeast, but I just really love the reds so much that I think I will end up going with a breeder in the Midwest who exclusively breeds reds and apricots. There's obviously some uncertainty in the timing of all of this, but it looks like I'd be able to have puppy come home in the Fall (right around the time I'd want to be settled in my new house, hopefully).

I really appreciate the thoughtful advice you all provided and may check in with more questions as I think through this, but I feel more ready to put down a deposit soon.

One follow-up question for you all: for those of you who had the puppy shipped to you on an airplane, was this OK for the puppy? I might be overthinking this, but I feel so sorry for a puppy to be put through such a scary experience when it's so little. Does shipping the puppy make it more likely to be sick upon arrival (even if it's well taken care of to that point)?

Thanks again. :D
 
#22 ·
It's done successfully by many, usually using a flight nanny if the pup will still fit under seat. Not an easy ask for some standard pups.

I personally couldn't fly a pup unless I was there to help them from that first moment of leaving all they know behind. I'd want to be who they rely on from that very moment.

This is how one of our breeder/members, who btw should be an excellent option for you of you're thinking of going this far afield.
I do not ship my puppies. If a puppy buyer is not able to drive to Pittsburgh the next most common scenario is going fly to Pittsburgh, if they want, I am willing to meet them at the Greater Pittsburgh Airport where they can catch the very next flight out. I prefer the new family member to come to my house to have an opportunity to spend some quality time with me, meet the mother of the litter and so on. Many times if a puppy buyer lives in the NY, NJ, CT, region, John will turn this into an opportunity to visit with his family and take the puppy to his family home. There have been a few occasions the prospective owner cannot come to Pittsburgh and they have paid my way to fly the puppy to them.

I do not think I would be comfortable with the idea of a puppy nanny. In theory it sounds great, but then I am not comfortable handing my puppy off to one person, traveling, and then handing the puppy off to someone else. The puppy leaving its home, mother and birth family, is traumatic enough, but being switched from hand to hand to hand is a bit more than I believe I would be comfortable with.

As for the time in the airport and airplane. The puppy is normally very quiet. I have never and a puppy have an accident during the trip; at the airport or the airplane . When you enter the airplane, the puppy bag does not need to be conspicuous, carefully treat it like any other piece of carry-on luggage. Simply come on the plane carefully and put it under the seat and most other passengers will not even be aware you have a puppy. Since you have a poodle other passengers that have allergies should not have a reaction. I have never had a problem while flying with a puppy.
I know I am over cautious. I will not ship a puppy. I do not feel comfortable putting an eight weeks old puppy in a crate in cargo, first I am not certain if trust the conditions of cargo for a young puppy, it is scary. Second the puppy is terrified being stripped away from its mother and the comfort/security of its litter mates, human family, and protective household. I know this will not settle well with some, but I will not allow a service such as a puppy nanny. After being ripped away from all this puppy feels secure and comfortable with, it will try and start to bond with this new person, it will start to immediately seek comfort and security and try to depend on this new person without the understanding that it is only temporary, just to be ripped away one again to be placed with someone new. If someone lives past driving distance they can come to Pittsburgh, take the puppy back on the plane, under the seat with the new owner that will be bonding with the puppy as well. Many flights will even allow the puppy to come out of the pet carrier to sit on the new owners lap. On a rare occasion, when a person is not able to come at all, at their experience, I have flown with the puppy to its new home. My first concern is for my puppy.
More breeder/members of tested and beautiful reds are NOLA, out of New Orleans, bigredpoodle (Sheroc/Palmares) and Patriot and I'm sure I've forgotten some.

Our breeder members drop in occasionally but not generally just to chat anymore.
 
#23 ·
I guess
It's done successfully by many, usually using a flight nanny if the pup will still fit under seat. Not an easy ask for some standard pups.

I personally couldn't fly a pup unless I was there to help them from that first moment of leaving all they know behind. I'd want to be who they rely on from that very moment.

This is how one of our breeder/members, who btw should be an excellent option for you of you're thinking of going this far afield.




More breeder/members of tested and beautiful reds are NOLA, out of New Orleans, bigredpoodle (Sheroc/Palmares) and Patriot and I'm sure I've forgotten some.

Our breeder members drop in occasionally but not generally just to chat anymore.
Thank you...I think I would feel more comfortable flying out to pick up the baby and bringing him back with me on the plane.
 
#24 ·
Here's my suggestion. Farleysd is in Washington PA. I don't know where you are in MA, but they're within a short or long single days drive from much of the NE area. Geographically, and for your apricot preference, they are an excellent potential for you. If you've checked out their site, don't be put off by the Puppies page not showing anything this year. It's not unusual for breeders to focus on their dogs rather than their website.

If you haven't already, contact them to introduce yourself. If they're not going to be able to help, they may be able to refer you to other apricot or brown breeders that they like. Find the breeder that you trust, and the puppy will find you.

They may be showing again this year at Westminster, so it may take a bit for them to respond.
 
#25 ·
Here's my suggestion. Farleysd is in Washington PA. I don't know where you are in MA, but they're within a short or long single days drive from much of the NE area. Geographically, and for your apricot preference, they are an excellent potential for you. If you've checked out their site, don't be put off by the Puppies page not showing anything this year. It's not unusual for breeders to focus on their dogs rather than their website.

If you haven't already, contact them to introduce yourself. If they're not going to be able to help, they may be able to refer you to other apricot or brown breeders that they like. Find the breeder that you trust, and the puppy will find you.

They may be showing again this year at Westminster, so it may take a bit for them to respond.
I'm in the Boston area. I just reached out to Farley using the e-mail address on their website, and I'll ping them on the forum site too. Thanks for the suggestion!
 
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