This might sound weird to you but did you happen to complain or were you obviously unhappy about wrigs last groom? Don't get me wrong, I don't mean anything like did you flip out and act like a fool LoL though every groomer alive has had that client before, Im just curious if the groomer knew you were unahppy.
The reason I ask is that it sounds an awful lot like she is trying to drop you as a client either because she doesn't like grooming your poodle or because she took it personally that you weren't happy last time around. The best way I know of to get rid of a client is to pull some crazy stunt with their appointment like that... especially around christmas.
I would never do it of course I'm more blunt - go away and don't come back. LoL. No just kidding, I'm more polite than that but I would never book and then cancel an appointment for anything other than a medical reason - mean I was the one who was sick. If I don't want to work with you I just refuse your appointment and I'll tell you why, most of the time I have a referral for you too on who you CAN call. On the rare occasion I have had clients who are just freaks, the real yell and scream at you drama drama type. In those cases I don't tell them why, I just tell them I am booked sorry you'll have to call back because I don't open my appointment book past a certain number of weeks or months. I can't book your next appointment three months from now on a wednesday, I have no idea what I might be doing and might want to take some time off every now and again.
Some groomers put up with a lot of crap from clients around christmas but most of the time it's from people who didn't listen back in October and Nov. when they were told the christmas appointments were booking up and they'd better go ahead and reserve one. Then they call around the 15th and guess what... So sorry I'm booked. I bend over backwards most years (haha not this one obviously since I can't bend over much at all) to work late and squeeze as many people in as I can. I would NEVER turn away a dog who had already been brushed and bathed and only wanted FFT... thats crazy. It would take just a few minutes and done - easy money. Duh thats a no brainer to me.
Hahah, all this comming from the groomer who's dog is unclipped, dirty, and kind of matted at this very moment

Oh well... it'll be fixed tomorrow, help is on the way!
FD, that story kind of cracks me up and makes me mad for you all at the same time. I can't stand people like that, and people who tell me "well you're a groomer thats just part of the job" refering to their dog trying to take my face off at some point. I can't believe it but this week one of my "best" clients, who I have griped about before but cannot at the moment afford to lose because she behaves MOST of the time and I llove the dog actualy called me on my cell after being told by my husbad I was in labor and delivery because there was a complication and complained that this might get in the way of getting her dog groomed before christmas. Sorry??? WHAT?? Did you seriously just imply that a bath and a haircut is more important? She brought the dog in on Thursday she insisted it be thursday after I told her I really needed a day to myself after three days being poked and proded at the hospital and friday would be better. Whatever, I decided to just get it over with so sure come on ahead on Thursday. When she picked the dog up she had the nerve to complain that it had taken so long this time (well dumby you're dog was a month overdue b/c u no showed for two appts and sheesh I needed to take breaks) and mentioned that she wished I had just gone ahead and had the c-section Monday so I could get back to work...
Rofl, ummm yeah sure, it's real likely I would have been able to groom your dog this week if I had just had surgery for one and two ummmm delivering a baby 11 weeks early is kind of a big deal...
John and I have talked about it and he was REALLY upset and made me promise that as soon as Nicholas is born and settled and I'm back in business she is gone. As much as I love the dog and as nice as the lady can be sometimes I just cannot forgive that.