[MarleysMom]

I've done a little research on this all-natural flower essence for dogs. Does anyone have any suggestions, comments, or concerns about this remedy for shy, newly adopted dogs?

Marley wont' really let me hold him or come close to him too often. He is adjusting (and eating and pooping now) but still rather hesitant to just chill in my lap as he did with his foster mom. I Know it's not his personality to "not like affection" or "not want to be held" because I saw how he acted at his foster's house. But I just am trying to be patient and understanding that it will take some time for him to come around.

Thanks

 

[MarleysMom]

Do you rub it directly on his ears or the top of his head...or do you administer it orally (through his water?)

Do you know the best place to buy it?

Thank you for your feedback!

 

[MarleysMom]

Update on marley

Thank you all for your great advice!! I actually haven't even had to use my Bach's yet. The night I went to purchase the Bach's from a local pet store I got some GREAT advice from the owners. In just three days Marley is now wagging his tale when I walk in the front door...licking my hand...playing with his toys and acting so full of life! I actually got a kiss on the face today!!! He's even sit in my lap for a few minutes!

So thank you for your advice!

 

[MarleysMom]

They said dont look him in the eye. I started giving him treats w/o looking at him.....and it totally worked wonders! I did not know that that was a sign of aggression. They gave me some samples of organic/all-natural dehydrated chicken treats that he really liked.

I am having a little trouble with him at night. I don't know if it was just last night...but he kept coming into my room and whining then jumping around. I tried letting him out at 4am...that didn't work. But he won't sleep in the pet bed next to my bed? I can't figure it out. He hasn't ever done that before. I think he's just lonely out in the living room alone. He has a little cubby in my entertainment center w/ a blanket and all of his toys--but I think he just wanted to play.

Maybe he'll get used to sleeping in my room?

 

[MarleysMom]

Marley is going great! Every day I see a little more improvement! I tried bringing him in my room and taking his blankie and toys and putting them (and him) all in his pet bed. I shut my bedroom door and just went to bed. He wandered around for a few minutes, but eventually he did get in his bed and slept the entire night through! I plan to ignore him (or give him a firm "NO, Marley") when he gets up in the middle of the night wanting to play!

As far as the eye stare debate....I do think it differs from a passive, scared, or abused dog to an aggressive more dominant dog. Now I can look at Marley, but that initial looking away helped me gain his trust.

Next we're working on potty training! He's really pretty good at it! Easily distracted outside, but he's a really really great dog! Love him dearly!

Thank you all for the great advice and encouragment! I always made fun of my dad for totally loving forums...but now I'm a believer!!