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Fluffyspoos · 09-26-2009, 08:46 AM

Everyone that's seem my posts has seen me talking about my future poodles. This was possible because my boyfriend and I were going to move in together and get dogs. Well he decided last night that he actually didn't love me after almost two years, and although he said we could still get a place and get dogs, I don't think I can do that.

So it looks like it wont be for a very, very long time before I can get these dogs I've been dreaming about for years. I can't afford to move out now, and who knows when I will be able to.

Life at home is more than... desirable. And now I only feel more lonely.

/endvent

cbrand · 09-26-2009, 08:47 AM

I'm so sorry. I guess it's better to find out now but that doesn't make it hurt any less.

Cdnjennga · 09-26-2009, 09:32 AM

I'm so sorry Fluffyspoos! To lose two things in one fell swoop (your boyfriend and your future poodles) is very difficult. Don't lose the dream though, things often have a way of working out when you least expect them... And please do stick around the forum.

BFF · 09-26-2009, 10:20 AM

I'm sorry. I know this is a huge let down in so many ways. Keep your chin up and look forward. Don't concentrate on what you don't have. It will only hold you back. You are a strong, knowledgeable, and resourceful person. I have a feeling things will get better for you sooner than later. You have the power to make your own future and will likely be a lot better off for it. I think you will have a pup before you know it.

I do hope you stay on the forum. It's been fun having you here!

MakeShift Heart · 09-26-2009, 10:47 AM

Awww Im sorry to hear this! But remember there's always a light to make dark times seem more brighter!!! Keep your chin up we're all here for you! *BIG BIG HUGS! and kisses from belle!*

taxtell · 09-26-2009, 04:24 PM

Ugh.

I'm sorry for you. :(

Fluffyspoos · 09-26-2009, 04:44 PM

Don't worry guys, I'm not going to leave the forum. I may not be a poodle owner, but I'll always be a poodle fan. I may not get my dog within a year, but I'll get one someday.

He wants to come over and talk tonight after he gets off work, we'll see how things go from there.

FUZBUTZ · 09-26-2009, 05:46 PM

Earlier in your first post when you said that he said you two could still get a place together and still get your poodles, I kinda' wondered if maybe there was something else going on, like maybe he was upset about something and that words were spoken, that were not meant. That doesn't make it right, but, I sort of thought that I was reading something in this that said that he does really still love you. If you do love him and there is any chance of working things out, I hope that you do. If you do still love him and know for a fact that he does not love you, then I feel that you should move on with your life, and not try to live with him under the same roof because it would hurt you. Good luck with your talk tonight, and do whatever is best for you. I'm Glad to hear that you will be staying on this forum.

Fluffyspoos · 09-26-2009, 08:19 PM

So we talked some things over and he'd admitted that he made a mistake and that he's going to put more of an effort into things any expressing his feelings other than claiming he's always fine.

He said he's been taking me for granted and that he really does love me, so we're together again, but I want to make sure that this is what's right, so I'm going to keep my guard up. It's been a painful 24 hours.

FUZBUTZ · 09-26-2009, 08:44 PM

I Really hope things turn out great for you. I truly hope that the two of you can work things out between you. You've already had almost 2 years together, so something must be right, hope you don't just throw it away and later regret it. Good luck 2 u 2.