Presley

Since yesterday I just wants to crye.
Yesterday befor bed time my tummy stared to hurt, I felt sick and my BF got angry because of some lundry.

I feel so lost, I't feels like I do not have enything left in my life.
All my friends are super busy, so I got nobody other than Presley, he is there nomather what and I love him for that.

All day I sit at home, studying or watch tv, walk the dog, and every 14 day I go to work. My BF is getting tired of me, even he is on work all day and almost spends no time with me.

At this point I really want to go home to my parents and trye to start over there.
But I can't give up school just yet, and I have 3 month contract to quit the job, and 3 months to quit the apartment.
I have nobady to talk with, I have no Idea what to do.

Indiana

You sound like you’re going through a tough time but sometimes it’s good to have these low periods because you look closely and honestly at your life to see what needs changing. This is a good time for you to ask yourself, what do you want out of life? Make a list. Then make a list of things you will need to do to get there, and find 3 things you can start today to put that into motion. You can do it! I’ve been there, lots of us on this forum have been there, and you can have the life you want—it’s gonna take some work and some time, but who cares; time will go by and you’ll be getting older regardless of whether you’re doing something productive or not, might as well do something that will be good for your future. Don’t depend on the boyfriend to make you happy, that’s your own responsibility. But once you have a plan, you will be moving forward. Thinking of you! Glad your little Presley is there to help you through it.  And lots of other people are there for you too, including us on this forum and also your family.

Bunny

Good advice from Indiana.

Also, are there some places where you could do some volunteer work in your extra time? Animal shelter, theater group, tutoring kids...whatever your interests are, I know there are people who really need volunteer help. And the good thing about volunteering is you can pick what you really like to do! And it will get you out of the apartment.

Or maybe you could pick up some extra spending money walking dogs for other people or something like that.

I think the main thing is to have something to do every day. I don't work and my child is 12, so he doesn't need intense attention, but I find myself really busy and look forward to every day, doing some activities that I really love (and some I hate like laundry LOL).

I'm sorry you're going through a rough time. What part of Norway are you in? We got to visit Oslo last year, and my husband's dad emigrated to the US from Bergen.

kukukachoo

So sorry to hear you are feeling this way. I love the advice you have been given so I don't have much to add other than I hope you feel better soon.

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Rusty

I'm sorry you're feeling sad. I think you've had some good advice here already. I'd only add that I think it's completely possible and okay to be happy living with only yourself and a poodle. It's also okay to cut your losses, start over, and work towards something new, if that's what you decide is best for you. Being near or with family in the process can be a great support. I hope things look up soon.

MollyMuiMa

Darling Girl....You have so much more than you think ! You are still very young and finding yourself in this big bad world can be hard sometimes but know that you can make
wonderful things happen in your life! Don't ever let anyone(Boyfriend) define who you are! The suggestions about volunteering is a good one..... it helps to boost your confidence and gives you an 'outlet' to express yourself. Also, I saw in earlier post that you have Sisters...I also have two sisters & they are my best friends I may not like what they say sometimes but I know they will always be there....Make your sisters your best friends! & of course Presley too! Sending you a big Mommy hug.....just in case you need one!

Eddiepoo

I have just read your post. Hope you are feeling more positive now. It is horrible to feel lonely and sad. Be strong, wishing you better soon xx

Abbe gails Mom

Well Sweets, you just got some of the best advice any one could get, it comes from the heart and a thing called life. And there is someone that counts on you for there wellbeing,Presley, having a dog is much like having a small child, they count on you for there everthing . so in a way your a mom, a poodles human mom . Hang in there, it does get brtter . If you made a mistake today, you get a do over tomorrow . I know, my life is one big do over. LOL.