Thank you for the advice. I think the most important issue to us is that we want to be financially stable before living together. I told him how I felt about not contributing equally, and he said he understood, and wouldn't want me to feel uncomfortable.
We have quite liberal parents that have no problem with sleep overs, and he's stayed over at my house for a week while my parents are away. After our weekend sleep overs, it's getting harder and harder to go back to living separately during the week. That's what has spurred the talk of moving in together. We desperately WANT to live together, but do not want to risk debt or have to move back in with our parents.
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